I was visiting my elderly Dad in the nursing home when out of the blue he said, “You should have won that Spanish award in high school.”

I looked at him in stunned silence . . .

His words felt like someone trying to pick at the scar and re-open a wound from long ago.

“You remember that?” I finally said.

“Of course,” he replied. “We all knew you were the top Spanish student senior year, yet I never understood why the award went to someone else.”

I could only shake my head in disbelief and smile.

If only I’d heard those words 30 years ago!

How it would have tempered my disappointment and affirmed all my hard work. 

But the award ceremony came and went and nothing was ever spoken.

Failing to speak the good we are thinking can sometimes wound as deeply as words carelessly spoken.

Proverbs 18:21 tells us “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.”

Words are powerful.

They can convey negatives on the road to death—pain, offense, dejection, depression, annoyance, rage, etc. . . .

. . . or, our words can impart life—inspire, encourage, motivate, embolden, heal, restore, and so on.

As Christians, our words should reflect the message of Christ and add value to conversation, building up rather than tearing down.

“Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers.” (Ephesians 4:29) 

Our words can dispense grace to the hearers!

“Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.” (Colossians 4:6)

Salt has long been used to preserve and flavor food. It makes what we eat wholesome and palatable.

Likewise with our conversation . . .

Like putting salt on our food, our talk should be seasoned with good, gracious words, making conversation more appetizing and flavorful.

Without “salting” our words, they are subject to being unprofitable and injurious, like meat left untreated, spoils.

So don’t hold back!

Remember the words from Berton Braley’s poem “Do It Now”: 

“If you think some praise is due him now’s the time to slip it to him,
For he cannot read his tombstone when he’s dead.”

Is there someone you can bless today with kind and encouraging words?

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